I’ve always wondered this…
Is it wrong to need other people around you, that will keep you going?
I don’t know if I’m phrasing it correctly, so I’ll elaborate. Generally, I see myself as a person who is fiercely independent and capable of doing things on my own. However, there are times where I don’t WANT to do things alone. I’ve been doing that all my life, so I prefer to do things in the company of people who have the same goals, but also the same hurdles. Someone mentioned the other day, that I really should be able to do the gym routines on my own. Yes, I can… but do I want to? I’ve always been the type of person that gets bored quickly. That’s why the workouts with Jemma were so AWESOME! It was never the same. Of course, now things are moving on, and Jemma is understandably busy, so I have a ton of workouts to choose from. I find it’s good to do it with someone though, because if there’s one thing I’ve learned is that I don’t push myself as hard as I could when there’s no one around. A big flaw, yes, I know. It’s on the list of things to improve upon, and I have no doubt that one day I will be ticking off many things on said list.
So, is it wrong to need support? My mind keeps on saying yes, but if I’m true to how I feel, I’d say sod what my mind thinks. In reality, it’s always good to have someone you can rely on for support. If that makes me a weakling (oh no!!) then so be it!
My ultimate goal is to be there to support others… I know what it’s like, and it’s not easy, but we all have the inner strength to achieve our goals, just sometimes, all it takes is someone saying ‘I am here for you’!
#DwindlingDeeva
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Is it wrong to need other people around you, that will keep you going?
I don’t know if I’m phrasing it correctly, so I’ll elaborate. Generally, I see myself as a person who is fiercely independent and capable of doing things on my own. However, there are times where I don’t WANT to do things alone. I’ve been doing that all my life, so I prefer to do things in the company of people who have the same goals, but also the same hurdles. Someone mentioned the other day, that I really should be able to do the gym routines on my own. Yes, I can… but do I want to? I’ve always been the type of person that gets bored quickly. That’s why the workouts with Jemma were so AWESOME! It was never the same. Of course, now things are moving on, and Jemma is understandably busy, so I have a ton of workouts to choose from. I find it’s good to do it with someone though, because if there’s one thing I’ve learned is that I don’t push myself as hard as I could when there’s no one around. A big flaw, yes, I know. It’s on the list of things to improve upon, and I have no doubt that one day I will be ticking off many things on said list.
So, is it wrong to need support? My mind keeps on saying yes, but if I’m true to how I feel, I’d say sod what my mind thinks. In reality, it’s always good to have someone you can rely on for support. If that makes me a weakling (oh no!!) then so be it!
My ultimate goal is to be there to support others… I know what it’s like, and it’s not easy, but we all have the inner strength to achieve our goals, just sometimes, all it takes is someone saying ‘I am here for you’!
#DwindlingDeeva
www.facebook.com/DwindlingDeevaDiary